A blurb about breasts.

Earlier this week, the New York Times released an op-ed piece “My Medical Choice,” by actress Angelina Jolie, where she shared that she underwent a double mastectomy.  Jolie lost her mother at a young age to breast cancer, and the doctors advised her that she also had a very high chance of developing breast cancer.

In her op-ed piece, Jolie stated “I wanted to write this to tell other women that the decision to have a mastectomy was not easy. But it is one I am very happy that I made. My chances of developing breast cancer have dropped from 87 percent to under 5 percent. I can tell my children that they don’t need to fear they will lose me to breast cancer.”

In response to her brave, personal decision… good for you!

There have been a lot of mixed reactions about her procedure on social media sites.  Where some people are able to see the inspiration, others do not.  There have been some horrible and distasteful statements on Twitter, for example, that say things like, “RIP Angelina Jolie’s rack. It’s a sad day for tit fans,” and “Angelina cut off her breasts, because she wasn’t getting enough attention.”

Let’s talk about the over sexualization of breasts for a minute.  When a woman shows cleavage, it is considered “sexy,” but also, she is “asking for it.”  When a woman conceals her cleavage, so she won’t be “asking for it,” she is considered a “prude.”  (Side note: people have the right to wear whatever they want.  Nobody “asks” to be raped, and clothes do not equal consent).  Also, when a woman is seen breastfeeding (the most natural thing on Earth) it is often considered “obscene.”  None of this is okay, and apparently it has gotten to the point where a life saving procedure will leave a woman “less than,” or “not real.”

A person’s body belongs to that person, and nobody else.  Granted, Angelina Jolie is in the “public eye” and, unfortunately, like most celebrities, she is probably used to judgments and criticisms.  However, every single negative comment that is made has a ripple effect (even if it doesn’t reach the desired target).  Perhaps, for instance, a young girl dealing with weight and body image issues stumbles upon those comments, and thinks “wow, her breasts were the most important thing about her, and I hate mine.  What can I do to ‘fix’ that?!”

Thoughts?

 

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An audit to Maine’s Military sexual assault laws!

Good news!

Lawmakers stand squarely behind measure to audit Maine military sex assault laws

AUGUSTA, Maine — Lawmakers showed strong support Monday for a resolve that directs the Maine National Guard to bring the state in line with federal guidelines related to the investigation, prosecution and adjudication of sexual assault in the military.

The Legislature’s Veterans and Legal Affairs Committee took the unusual step Monday of moving straight from an introductory public hearing to a recommendation vote on LD 1504, A Resolve Directing the Adjutant General of the State to Ensure the Maine Code of Military Justice Addresses Sexual Trauma in the Military. The committee voted unanimously in favor of its passage.

The resolve calls on Maine Adjutant General James Campbell to conduct a detailed assessment of the Maine Code of Military Justice and other provisions in Maine law, with the intention of bringing the issue back to the Legislature next year for possible action.

The resolve comes on the heels of a startling Pentagon study released last week that estimated at least 26,000 military personnel were assaulted in 2012, up sharply from 19,000 in 2010. That report and the recent arrest of an Air Force officer in charge of sexual prevention programs for sexual battery have put the issue in the spotlight.

Sen. Linda Valentino, D-Saco, the primary sponsor of the bill, said the Pentagon study stirred strong reactions among Maine National Guard members and advocates fighting against sexual assault.

“It’s just a very emotional day for a lot of us,” Valentino said. “I wish this bill would do more but it’s moving forward. Let’s come back next session and pass something.”

Destie Hohman Sprague, program director for the Maine Coalition Against Sexual Assault, agreed.

“This resolve is the first critical step at moving toward making some changes,” she said.

Sen. Colleen Lachowicz, D-Waterville, was one of 28 legislators who co-sponsored the bill, which gained bipartisan support. She said there is scant information about how many sexual assaults in the military are being reported in Maine, but hoped passage of the resolve would help make that information public.

“This is not out in the open; it’s one of the most hidden things that ever happens,” said Lachowicz, who is a social worker for victims of sexual assault. “There are a lot of people hurting and right now we don’t how they’re hurting. We can help them with their healing.”

William “Chick” Ciciotte of Topsham, retired from the military, implored lawmakers to do what common sense demands.

“I just don’t see any reason why anybody would disagree with this kind of legislation,” he said.

Advocates for the bill stressed that sexual assault happens to both men and women, which was backed by data from the Pentagon study, in which 6.1 percent of responding women and 1.2 percent of men said they had been victims of sexual assault in the military.

“Survivors should not fall through the cracks and offenders should not get off free,” said retired Air Force Lt. Col. Terry Moore, who is also the past chairwoman of the Maine Advisory Commission on Women Veterans.

“It goes without saying that sexual assault causes significant personal trauma to the victim,” said Eliza Townsend, executive director of the Maine Women’s Lobby. “Military sexual assault is the leading cause of post-traumatic stress disorder in female veterans. The Veterans Administration has linked it with higher rates of homelessness, depression and other mental health issues.”

Jill Barkley, public policy advocate for the American Civil Liberties Union of Maine, said the Maine National Guard has made significant progress in recent years on training and raising awareness about sexual harassment, assault and domestic violence, but that more aggressive policies must be put into place.

“Their efforts must be coupled with supportive policies that seek to hold abusers accountable and promote victim safety and resilience,” said Barkley. While the ACLU is supportive of the resolve, Barkley said the organization has reservations about two sections of the resolve that would bar people with past convictions for sexual offenses from joining the military and the use of state and national sex offender registries, which Barkley said the ACLU opposes in general.

No one spoke Monday in opposition to the bill, which now heads to the full Legislature for passage.

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Cleveland survivors return home

Earlier this week, three women who were missing for over a decade (and had no previous connection to one another), were found, and are now returning home.   This story is both heartbreaking and amazing.  Heartbreaking for the 10+ years of horror that they experienced; amazing for their survival and rescue.  Hopefully, they can now begin their healing and recovery processes, and the media will give them the respect and privacy to do so.

From The Washington Times:

Amanda Berry, fellow Cleveland captives turn to recovery after being kidnapped

Details began emerging Tuesday about the horrors endured by three Cleveland women who were kidnapped and held for a decade in a run-down house with plastic bags over the windows, but researchers on abductions and sexual assault say there will be a lot of help for them and their families.

As the sensational story developed, police encounters with the house in a poor neighborhood also began coming to light. They included separate calls from neighbors about seeing a nude woman crawling in the backyard and hearing pounding from inside the home’s doors.

The women, who reached freedom Monday night, “are now embarking on their next journey, and that’s the journey to heal,” said John Ryan, chief executive of the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children, which supported the hunt for two of the missing women, Amanda Berry and Georgina DeJesus, who vanished as teens. The third woman, Michelle Knight, was reported as missing as an adult.

Mr. Ryan, whose group offers resources for family counseling for such traumas, called the escape “a day of celebration.”

“Prayers have finally been answered. The nightmare is over,” said Stephen Anthony, head of the FBI office in Cleveland. “These three young ladies have provided us with the ultimate definition of survival and perseverance. The healing can now begin.”

Cleveland police have arrested three brothers — Ariel Castro, 52, Pedro Castro, 54, and Onil Castro, 50 — in the case. Criminal charges were expected to be filed by Wednesday.

According to NewsChannel 5 in Ohio, the three women endured multiple pregnancies during their years of captivity. At least five babies were born inside the home, and one victim had at least two miscarriages because she was so malnourished, reporters said. The house was boarded up in parts, some doors did not have knobs, and chains and tape were found inside.

Melissa Bermudez, a licensed clinical social worker at the Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network, the nation’s largest organization against sexual violence, said she couldn’t speak to the specifics of the Cleveland case but that victims of trauma and sexual violence generally need to “feel physically safe” as an important first step.

Next steps are commonly getting back into basic self-care — brushing one’s teeth, for instance — eating a good meal, reconnecting with loved ones, and re-establishing a sense of safety and stability, Ms. Bermudez said.

“Then they can really start working towards [addressing] the more complex parts of the trauma,” she said, noting that it’s not uncommon for certain sounds, smells and lighting in a room to trigger unpleasant memories.

The women were rescued Monday evening after Ms. Berry, 27, cried out for help to a neighbor, Charles Ramsey, from behind a nearly closed front door. When Mr. Ramsey saw her fighting to get through the door, he and another man came to her aid by kicking in the door. Ms. Berry and a little girl — believed to be her 6-year-old daughter — scrambled out.

They ran to a safe place, and Ms. Berry frantically called a 911 dispatcher and said, “Help me. I’m Amanda Berry. I’ve been kidnapped and I’ve been missing for 10 years and I’m, I’m here, I’m free now.”

Police swiftly converged on 2207 Seymour Ave., a house near downtown Cleveland, and found two other women — Ms. DeJesus, 23, and Ms. Knight, 30 — who also vanished about a decade ago.

Authorities arrested homeowner Ariel Castro and his two brothers.

The three women and the girl were taken to a hospital and released Tuesday morning. Cleveland police Commander Keith Sulzer said they were with law enforcement specialists and family members.

“Those women are so strong. All have a positive attitude,” Sandra Ruiz, aunt of Ms. DeJesus, told reporters Tuesday. “What we’ve done in 10 years is nothing compared to what those women have done in 10 years to survive.”

However, two neighbors in the mostly Puerto Rican neighborhood where the women were held said they had alerted police to suspicions regarding the Castro home.

Elsie Citron, whose daughter saw the naked woman some years ago, told reporters that she called law enforcement, “but they didn’t take it seriously.”

Israel Lugo said that when he called about hearing noises from inside the home 18 months ago, police merely knocked on the door, and when they didn’t get an answer they “walked to side of the house and then left.”

According to The Associated Press, police went to the home at least one other time since the women were kidnapped, but on an unrelated matter that led to no arrests or official action.

Cleveland police have been accused of incompetence and not noticing crimes in poor and minority neighborhoods. In 2009, Anthony Sowell was arrested after 11 women’s bodies were found buried in his home and yard in another run-down neighborhood. Many of Sowell’s victims — he is now on Ohio’s death row — were addicts whose disappearances were barely investigated.

In the latest case, Ms. Knight vanished in August 2002 when she was 19 and was reported missing by her family. Her mother, Barbara Knight, moved to Florida but often returned to West Cleveland to search for her daughter.

Ms. Berry was last seen April 2003 leaving her job at Burger King in a car with an unidentified driver. She was 16.

Ms. DeJesus vanished while walking home from school when she was 14.

Ms. Berry’s mother, Louwana Miller, died in March 2006 after being hospitalized for months with pancreatitis and other ailments. Her relentless search for her daughter took a toll on her health, family and friends said.

• This article is based in part on wire service reports.

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Abstinence only education is harmful

From thinkprogress.org:

Elizabeth Smart: Abstinence Education Teaches Rape Victims They’re Worthless, Dirty, And Filthy

Elizabeth Smart became a household name after she was kidnapped from her home in Salt Lake City, UT at the age of 14 and held in captivity for nine months. She was forced into a polygamous marriage, tethered to a metal cable, and raped daily until she was rescued from her captors nine months later. Smart was recovered while she and her kidnappers were walking down a suburban street, leading many Americans who followed her story on the national news to wonder:Why didn’t she just run away as soon as she was brought outside?

Speaking to an audience at Johns Hopkins about issues of human trafficking and sexual violence, Smart recently offered an answer to that question. She explained that some human trafficking victims don’t run away because they feel worthless after being raped, particularly if they have been raised in conservative cultures that push abstinence-only education and emphasize sexual purity:

Smart said she “felt so dirty and so filthy” after she was raped by her captor, and she understands why someone wouldn’t run “because of that alone.”

Smart spoke at a Johns Hopkins human trafficking forum, saying she was raised in a religious household and recalled a school teacher who spoke once about abstinence and compared sex to chewing gum.

“I thought, ‘Oh, my gosh, I’m that chewed up piece of gum, nobody re-chews a piece of gum, you throw it away.’ And that’s how easy it is to feel like you no longer have worth, you no longer have value,” Smart said. “Why would it even be worth screaming out? Why would it even make a difference if you are rescued? Your life still has no value.”

Now in her mid-twenties, Smart runs a foundation to help educate children about sexual crimes. She now believes that children should grow up learning that “you will always have value and nothing can change that.”

Social psychologists and sexual abuse counselors agree that comprehensive sex education can help prevent sexual crimes. Teaching children about their bodies gives them the tools to describe acts of abuse without feeling as embarrassed or uncomfortable, and it also helps elevate their self-confidence and sense of bodily autonomy. A shame-based approach to genitalia and sexuality, on the other hand, sends kids the message that they can’t discuss or ask questions about any of those issues.

Nonethless, abstinence-only education programs have a long history of imparting harmful messages that shame youth about their sexuality instead of teaching them the facts they needto safeguard their health. A high school in West Virginia recently made national headlines after hosting a conservative religious speaker who allegedly told students “if you take birth control, your mother probably hates you” and “I could look at any one of you in the eyes right now and tell if you’re going to be promiscuous.” In Smart’s home state of Utah — which is home to a large religiously conservative Mormon community — sex education is currently mandated, but lawmakers have repeatedly pushed to weaken the state law and reinstate an abstinence-only curriculum.

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Every Month is Sexual Assault Awareness Month!

“Never get tired of doing little things for others, because sometimes, those little things occupy the biggest parts of their hearts.” – unknown 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Today is May 2nd, which means Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM) ended two days ago.  However, that does not mean we stop educating, advocating, and raising awareness. Every month is SAAM for us!

We would like to say THANK YOU (!!!) to everyone who volunteered, and/or participated in our SAAM events this year, in all three counties. Your support for our agency, and for sexual assault survivors means everything. There will be more events happening throughout the year, so please stayed tuned for updates =)

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Responsibility of the community to keep children safe

Every Sunday throughout April, Sexual Assault Prevention & Response Services will have a guest column in the SunJournal. Each column will discuss a different aspect of sexual violence, as well as prevention & education efforts.

Here is the 4th and final article from one of our our Education Coordinators!

I walk into a first-grade classroom with an armload of 30 makeshift hula hoops shaped like a raindrop rather than a circle. They are blue and have a mass of silver duct tape at the point of the raindrop shape.

The students in the class are smiling and quietly say to each other and to me “Space Ships!”

These “space ships” are one of the tools that we have been using since 2007 to teach the self-empowerment and personal space to children in elementary school. In some schools, by the spring of first grade, a child will have “played” with these space ships three times.

Teaching children about personal body safety and sexual abuse prevention is a careful endeavor. At Sexual Assault Prevention and Response Services, we approach the issue by teaching different concepts that build on one another and create a firm foundation before we even start talking specifically about sexual harassment or sexual assault.

The first concept we teach is that of personal body space.

By using the “spaceships,” we take a theoretical concept and make it visual, so all the children can “see” it and understand it.

They can see that we move through our day and our need for personal body space might change depending on circumstance, or on which person we are interacting with.

The space ships allow the children to experience the concept of their own personal body space and respect the right of each other to maintain that space. This activity also helps children to understand and learn about healthy boundaries and consent — key concepts in sexual assault prevention.

By third grade, we focus our presentations on team work and interdependence. Using games designed to encourage the students to maintain their own individual personal space while being part of a group, we explore concepts of leadership, group dynamics and how to problem-solve in a fair and positive way so that all members of a team feel included and are safe.

We also talk about their responsibility to one another, which lays the groundwork for conversations about how to be a proactive bystander and help other students when it looks like they are being hurt.

Our presentations in fourth grade explicitly focus on gossip, rumors and bystander behaviors.

Again, using games to explore these concepts, the students are able to meet and address these potentially scary concepts in a developmentally appropriate and fun fashion.

We give the students a tube of toothpaste and ask them to squeeze it out onto a paper plate. We can then talk about what a mess it made. Then we ask them to put the toothpaste back in the tube. Of course they cannot get more than a dab back in the tube.

We can then begin the discussion about how words can make a mess and that, once said, they cannot be taken back. This helps us to talk with the students about bullying and what a mess it can create and how it cannot be undone.That lays a solid foundation for later presentations about appropriate Internet/social media use.

In fifth and sixth grades, we actively engage the students in conversations about Internet safety and harassment issues.

Because they have had all of the concept and skill-building presentations in prior years, they have the ability to apply those lessons to these very important topics and understand them in a more fundamental way.

Throughout these presentations, we talk with the students about the importance of getting help from a grownup when they or someone else is being hurt or in danger of being hurt. We help them to identify who those grownups might be, and what they should expect in the way of help from those adults.

All of our presentations can be presented as stand-alone material, but we find that they work best all together. Our presentations build upon each other, creating a framework of understanding, built year after year.

We believe it is the responsibility of the community to help keep our children safe from harm.

While it is the adults who should be responsible for sexual abuse prevention, our programs provide our children with the concepts and skills necessary to help keep themselves safe. And, they teach children lifelong skills that will help them each to understand and seek out safe, healthy relationships.

Bridget McAlonan is the SACC Education Coordinator for the Sexual Assault Prevention and Response Services.

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The impact of child abuse and neglect

Every Sunday throughout April, Sexual Assault Prevention & Response Services will have a guest column in the SunJournal. Each column will discuss a different aspect of sexual violence, as well as prevention & education efforts.

Here is the 3rd article from the Coordinator & Forensic Interviewer of our Children’s Advocacy Center!

 

While physical injuries may or may not be immediately visible, abuse and neglect can have consequences for children, families and society that last lifetimes, if not generations. The impact of child abuse and neglect is often discussed in terms of physical, psychological, behavioral and so…

While physical injuries may or may not be immediately visible, abuse and neglect can have consequences for children, families and society that last lifetimes, if not

The impact of child abuse and neglect is often discussed in terms of physical, psychological, behavioral and societal consequences. In reality, however, it is impossible to separate them completely.

Physical consequences, such as damage to a child’s growing brain, can have psychological implications, such as cognitive delays or emotional difficulties. Psychological problems often manifest as high-risk behaviors. Depression and anxiety, for example, may make a person more likely to smoke, abuse alcohol or illicit drugs, or overeat. High-risk behaviors, in turn, can lead to long-term physical health problems such as sexually transmitted diseases, cancer and obesity.

Not all children who are abused or neglected will experience long term consequences. Outcomes of individual cases vary widely and are affected by a combination of factors, including:

—  The child’s age and developmental status when the abuse or neglect occurred;

—  The type of abuse (physical, neglect, sexual abuse, etc.);

—  The frequency, duration and severity of abuse; and

—  The relationship between the victim and his or her abuser.

Some children experience long-term consequences of abuse and neglect while others emerge relatively unscathed. The ability to cope, and even thrive, following a negative experience, is sometimes referred to as “resilience.”

There are a number of factors that can contribute to a child’s resilience. These factors can include a child’s individual characteristics, such as optimism, self-esteem, intelligence, creativity, humor and independence.

The acceptance of peers and positive individual influences, such as non-offending parents or caregivers, teachers, mentors and role models also contribute to resilience.

Other factors may include the child’s social environment and the family’s ability to nurture and provide a stable family relationship. Access to health care and social services significantly impacts a child’s resilience.

The immediate physical effects of abuse or neglect can be relatively minor (bruises or cuts) or severe (broken bones, hemorrhage, burns or even death). In some cases the physical effects are temporary; however, the pain and suffering they cause a child may live on far after the abuse is over.

The relationship between childhood trauma and later health concerns has been the subject of many studies. Research has found that childhood experiences of abuse contribute to the likelihood of depression, anxiety, suicidal behaviors, personality disorders, eating disorders and sexual disorders (Draper et al., 2007).

When thinking about the long-term effects of child abuse, here are a few statistics to keep in mind:

—  22 percent of maltreated children have learning disorders requiring special education.

—  27 percent of children who are abused or neglected become delinquents, compared to 17 percent of children in the general population.

In a study of 17,000 adults, those who were abused as children were more likely to become suicidal; more likely to have heart disease, cancer, chronic lung disease; twice as likely to be smokers; twice as likely to be severely obese; twice as likely to become alcoholics; and three times as likely to develop a drug addiction.

Studies conducted have shown an increase of sexually transmitted diseases in childhood abuse or neglect survivors tracked over time.

Although this article has focused on the effects of child abuse, it ends with the question: How do we ameliorate those long-term impact of child abuse?

The answer is simple — stop child abuse and neglect. There must be a resurgence of community education and intervention, and a commitment to help end this horrific childhood experience.

Child abuse continues to be an epidemic — for which there is a cure. Every person, whether they are a parent, educator, professional or a customer shopping at Walmart must advocate and protect the most vulnerable members of our community.

If a child discloses abuse to you, believe them, then take the appropriate steps to report the disclosure — The Department of Health and Human Services will take a report 24 hours a day, as will all law enforcement entities.

The impact of child abuse does not end when the abuse stops. A person abused as a child may experience long-term effects that can interfere with their day-to-day functioning. With help and support, however, it is possible for that person to live a full and constructive life, and even thrive — to enjoy a feeling of wholeness, satisfaction in life and work, as well as genuine love and trust in their relationships.

Keri Myrick is the coordinator and forensic interviewer for the Androscoggin Children’s Advocacy Center.

 

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Victim blaming leads to tolerance. And that is not okay.

(A guest blog, written by Maggie P., a Practicum student at SAVES, the Franklin County office of Sexual Assault Prevention & Response Services.  Thank you, Maggie!)

 

Have you ever heard of a SlutWalk?  They are outdoor events that protest rape culture and victim blaming, and they occur worldwide.  A few weeks ago, while browsing the Internet, I stumbled upon a picture of a young woman holding a sign from the 2011 SlutWalk in Washington, D.C., and what caught my eye the most was the comment underneath the picture.  The comment read, “maybe if she hadn’t drank so much she wouldn’t have been raped.”  My mouth literally fell open in disgust and astonishment…because the comment was left by someone that I know.  I went to high school with this particular individual, so I know for a fact that he was educated at a highly qualified institution.  However, his ignorant comment would lead me to believe differently.  Disturbingly, several other people also commented on the photo with praises for making “such a good point,” and for “speaking up.”  Once again…disgust and astonishment.  My immediate thought was to leave a comment in response, but I hesitated in fear of getting worked up (or getting even more worked up, I should say).  For my second thought, I wondered:  what makes these individuals think that being intoxicated is a reason to be sexually assaulted?  Newsflash – it is not.  Newsflash again – there are no “reasons” to be sexually assaulted, ever.

Recently, there have been several public cases involving teenagers and young adults who have been sexually assaulted by their peers while intoxicated at social gatherings.  One of these cases included a 15-year-old girl from California who committed suicide after being raped by three of her male peers at a party 8 months ago.  What makes this situation even more disturbing is that the young men allegedly took pictures documenting the assault (one of which became viral), and the victim was relentlessly bullied.  It has been reported that the three perpetrators were arrested in connection to the rape, and are currently being held in a California detention center.  Some people may argue that the girl should not have been drinking, and that by doing so, she put herself in a vulnerable position.  However, the act of consuming alcohol is not the problem…rape is the problem.

Another problem lies within the too-often-used excuse of, “Well he or she was drunk, so it’s fine.”  By saying this or similar statements, we are making sexual violence acceptable.  In a society where sexual violence is highly prevalent, it is difficult to believe that some people would make excuses for it, and that some would even condone it…but they do.  In order to prevent narrow mindsets and false concepts, education and prevention programs must be implemented in schools. April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month, and it’s the perfect time to start educating yourself and the ones you love about sexual violence. The information is out there, all you have to do is look for it.  Without exposing people to the reality rape and sexual assault, we run the risk of further enforcing the idea that sexual violence is acceptable, and that it should be tolerated, and that is not okay.

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Thank you!

On April 13th, the University of Maine at Farmington’s Softball team wore teal for Sexual Assault Awareness Month (they even had SAVES [the Franklin County office] printed on the sleeves)! Thank you so much for your support, and congratulations on your wins that day!

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Be cautious, informed when using social media

Every Sunday throughout April, Sexual Assault Prevention & Response Services will have a guest column in the SunJournal. Each column will discuss a different aspect of sexual violence, as well as prevention & education efforts.

Here is the 2nd article from one of our Outreach Coordinators!

 

The popularity of social media is massive and, for many of us, it has become an integral part of our everyday lives. Social media is a way for people to connect by sharing thoughts, photos, upcoming events, etc., via the Internet and mobile phone applications.

However, the world of social media is ever-changing; sites come and sites go, and just when we get used to the newest trend, there will be another one just around the corner.

Some of the most popular sites and apps at the moment include Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, Pinterest, Instagram and Snapchat.

Snapchat is one of the newest photo sharing apps for mobile phones; it has only been around for a year and a half.

According to Snapchat’s blog, “Over 1 billion snaps [have been shared] — with over 20 million unique moments shared every day.” Despite its popularity, there is a problem with Snapchat — it creates an illusion of “now you see it, now you don’t,” which is not 100 percent accurate.

The concept behind Snapchat is clever, and fun: once the picture is sent, the receiver can only view the picture for 1 to 10 seconds before it “disappears forever.” That is where the problem lies — nothing on social media actually “disappears forever.” Once something goes viral (becomes popular on the Internet quickly), there is no control over who will see it.

Yes, that is a scary thought, but it is also an important one to be aware of, and not just for kids and teens, but for all of us.

Snapchat is one of the latest tools, especially by teens and young adults, being utilized for sexting (the act of sending sexually explicit messages and/or photos via mobile phones), because of the belief that there will be no remaining evidence. If someone sends an explicit photo as a regular picture text message, the receiver of that photo will have it on their phone forever.

The allure (and danger) of Snapchat’s built-in self destruct timer allows the sender to think, “It’s OK to send this picture, because they will never see it again.” However, cell phones have the ability to take screenshots (a picture of what is displayed on the phone’s screen), and if it is done within that 10 second span, a Snapchat photo can also be saved forever.

Snapchat’s website does state that the sender will be notified if a screenshot has been taken; however, even if notification is made and read, the photo could already have been distributed or posted to the Web for all to see.

Alarmingly, there are YouTube videos that demonstrate how to take a screenshot of a Snapchat picture, and there are even Google links that explain how to take extra steps so the sender of the Snapchat photo does not get notified of a screenshot. That is scary.

Other than sexting, Snapchat has been used in bullying situations, i.e. taking a picture of someone in an embarrassing or compromising position.

Perhaps the sender thinks it may not cause too much harm, because the picture “disappears,” but again, that is not the case. To see proof of Snapchats that have gone viral, go to Twitter or Instagram, and type “Snapchat” in the search bar, and there will be countless photos that belonged to people who thought they would “disappear” after 10 seconds, but instead, are there for the whole world to see, forever.

Snapchat, when used properly, is endearing because, like life itself, moments come and moments go, and this app gives people the opportunity to share those fleeting moments with those we care about.

One final thought on the Internet and social media in general: What you see is not always what you get, so be careful about the information (and photos) that you share. Online sexual predators tend to hide behind fake accounts, pretending to be somebody they are not to get the personal information (and photos) they want.

It is important to know who you are talking to, and sharing things with, and please, never forget — things do not just “disappear” from social media; nothing is private.

Putting the negatives aside, social media can be productive, important, educational and, of course, fun. We just all need to be cautious and understand the risks when it comes to sharing.

And because we understand the importance of social media, you can find Sexual Assault Prevention and Response Services on Facebook, Pinterest, Twitter, and Tumblr — just search for the username/URL: SAPARSmaine.

Mandy Damon is the SAVES Outreach Coordinator for Sexual Assault Prevention and Response Services.

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